So this book has been a long time coming for me. I have wanted to read it. Everyone said I should read it. But as I was expecting or had an infant for most of this year a book about an abducted woman raising a boy in confinement wasn't something I could emotionally handle. And now, I have bought and read it and loved it! Not as much as I thought I would but it still moved me in so many ways.
**WARNING- small plot revelations**
I found it engaging and I couldn't put it down. I expected it to be hard to read. I had been told it was easier to digest because it was told by a child. Have you read Lullabies for Little Criminals? That's told by a child but it makes it all the harder to digest! However the voice of a 5 year old provided a different take on an abduction that I don't think many would ever consider. This unique point of view is what had me for the entire novel.
I loved the beauty of Ma's understanding of Jack's situation most of the time. And the moments where she lapses allow you to really sense the struggle she faces when being strong for Jack. A good example of that is when Jack wants to go back to the room and Ma allows them to despite the pain she must feel.
However I really still don't understand why she would attempt suicide. She had so much strength throughout all of the novel that I don't understand what the tipping point was for her. Her wisdom as a character, for me, was strongest during the interview with the press. If she had that kind of strength and attitude I really do not understand the suicide attempt.
The other question I would love to know is why is Ma adopted. I am still trying to figure out what the purpose of that was in the novel. With so much else going on emotionally why add that element. Plus, I don't think that element was well developed. Stated, touched upon once or twice and that is all.
These are minor concerns though. The strength Ma gives Jack his strength and courage to develop throughout his story. I feel proud of him throughout the novel and love that you can "see" him growing. I love the mother's creativity in Room as well. I can only hope I'm that genius even without necessity!
For me the characters really make a novel and I really felt that the characters were done well. I actually wished that some of the characters were left out though so that the story could've been a little tighter. The mention of the old friends, the introduction and exit of the father- I feel they could've been dealt with differently or left out entirely because there are so many emotions in the book as is. And those brief interactions leave you wanting to know how those relationships are, how Ma handles them. Keeping it simpler would've allowed more focus on the other characters and story lines. That being said, I love Steppa's character and how he balances out Grandma. I love the scene with Uncle Paul and the reflection of "normal" child against Jack but I do wish the chaos of them in the mall would've been balanced out with a positive event similar to the way when a negative event happened at Grandma's it was balanced with a positive event that gave you hope that Jack would do well in regular society.
Fantastic insights and ingenuity, loved it.
Here's a quote by Emma from a discussion group she held on Goodreads:
ReplyDeletemessage by Emma:
Personally I never meant Ma's adoption to be read as affecting all her relationships: I think she has a fairly average warm-but-irritated bond with her parents and a deeply passionate one with Jack. What I did want to show is that families these days (and perhaps always) are put together in different ways, including adoption and step-families and single parents and same-sex parents. So rather than Ma and Jack being this weird, stunted pairing who get to rejoin the 'normal' world Outside, they are a valid family who take their place in the jumbled Lego social world. Re: father figures, I agree that Steppa is the one who comes nearest to playing that role for Jack in the immediate aftermath of the escape; I liked the idea that it would be an unexpected, non-biological relative, who doesn't even have kids himself, who would manage that. But I also suggest that his Grandpa will come around, in time. And given that his uncle Paul and Doctor Clay are perfectly nice guys as well, that seems to me to be quite a lot of fatherly figures for Jack to encounter in a matter of weeks. They all stand together as a vivid contrast with Old Nick. And you'll notice that Ma has not raised Jack with any fear of men in general. It would have been way too pat (and Hollywood) for me to provide Jack - this early - with some instant father figure such as a boyfriend for Ma who'd pat him on the head and give him a baseball glove..
I don't know if the group can still be accessed by those who didn't join when it was active, but it's worth a try. The link to the group is http://www.goodreads.com/group/show/44771.Q_A_with_Emma_Donoghue